“The Transformation Tape Series showed me that I had already needed so much change in my own life, before I met my wife that I really did not deserve to have the freedom to make more decisions that would affect others. Stupid loveless people should not be allowed to get a divorce before they get help. I did not have the right to stay selfish and unloving, and divorce my wife and hurt our children. These tapes helped to totally change my heart and make me capable of an affectionate and faithful love that I had never knew was possible. I decided not to take one more selfish step based on my own feelings until I let this Counselor take his best shot at my stupid heart in person. Thank God he had great aim and really hit the bull’s-eye each time I went for counseling.”

“I thought for sure my marriage was over and nothing could help. My husband had left and he had reunited with his high school sweetheart and been with her for nearly a year. I did not want our marriage to be over, but our divorce was only a few weeks away when I was given The Transformation Tape Series.  I called for a counseling appointment as soon as I finished tape two. I could not wait to have an open and honest session. I wished my husband could also have to deal with his lack of feelings for me. Two months later my husband asked me for my counselor's number after telling me the previous two months had really shaken him up inside and made him question what he was doing to his life, to us, and to the kids. I always thought God had left us wives powerless, but these tapes helped me see how wrong I was. Now our daughters have seen what God can do to change a man's heart if a wife will allow God to change her heart even at its weakest point.”

“I heard these tapes and immediately realized why badly troubled marriages were almost never helped by the counseling I gave as a pastor, and also why it never disturbed me as much as it should have - I was the president of our denomination. Through these tapes and the stories the speaker used to illustrate his points, God exposed some painful issues in my life that were negatively affecting my ministry. Just after two counseling sessions I changed, my preaching changed, and almost immediately more people began to respond to altar calls for prayer, saying I had really touched a deep issue in their life. I always felt I preached the Gospel of Salvation clearly, but the Gospel of Sanctification was not revealed as vividly or graciously as in The Transformation Tape Series.”

“As a pastor I had often proclaimed from the pulpit that, “I did not need to hear about a persons  past to help them change their life.” Then several couples in our church got the counseling they needed and truly transform their marriages. One couple had the courage to lend me their copy of The Transformation Tape Series, and I was deeply convicted. These tapes showed me in a scriptural way how I had failed to dignify what a sovereign God had allowed in people's lives, and then failed to discover how He wanted to bring about transformation in their lives. These tapes transformed my ministry, and I pray more pastors will hear these and take them to heart before they wrongly assume they are giving members of their churches sufficient counsel.”

“When I first heard these tapes I actually got angry. I had so deeply stuffed the issues of my life that I refused to believe I needed counseling. I actually declared tapes to be full of heresy. My wife got indignant at my attitude and revealed to me that only a few months earlier she had actually been planning to divorce me until she was given a set of these tapes by one of her friends. After she heard them, she secretly went for a few counseling sessions to deal with the issues of her life that I could not understand much less fix. Her heart was changed and she was freed from her desire to divorce me. After that bomb was dropped on my arrogance, I listened to the tapes again with a more open mind. I didn't get through the first two tapes without realizing that I needed several sessions with this counselor before I said another hurtful word to my wife or children.”

Testimonies
"The Transformation Tape Series "

“My wife and I are missionaries in China. A tourist visiting China gave us The Transformation Tape Series. I am so thankful he did, my wife and I would have quit our mission work in China many years ago, and would probably have divorced shortly thereafter. After twenty years of marriage and ministry, somehow we had nothing to talk about. For us Tape 2 cracked and then crushed the walls that we had built up in our marriage and hearts. Every tape in this series has equipped us to help married couples through different issues that destroy marriages even in an entirely different culture.”

“Every time I go on a long road trip I bring these tapes with me, knowing they will give me the equivalent of a spiritual X-Ray or MRI when I know I really need to face and deal with an issue in my life, my marriage or in other relationships.”

“Every seminary student should have to listen to these tapes before they pastor others.”

“Our Sunday School planned to take twelve weeks to listen to these six tapes as a group. From the very start, we knew our lives would never be the same. We actually began to counsel each other as couples, and learned about the kind of transformation that God desires to produce in our lives, especially when people have fellowship with each other in radical honesty and scandalously merciful love.”

“Our Church has sent out nearly four thousand mini-sets of The Transformation Series (tapes #1 thru #4) since those messages were actually first preached in our Baptist church. Every member of our church has family, friends, colleagues and strangers who they have blessed with these tapes. We constantly hear testimonies about how “The Power of The Cross of Christ” is well and at work in another marriage or individual’s life. “

“These messages changed the way I saw myself as a pastor, and changed my definition of the kind of fellowship Church members should have with each other if they are to be healed of wounds suffered in unloving and hurtful relationships.”

“I gave these tapes to a Ph.D. student of Languages while on a Youth with a Mission (YWAM) trip abroad. He told me he had studied too many religions and philosophies to ever believe in Christianity. He has since used those tapes to teach seminars all over Eastern Europe in six different languages so that people can learn how to appropriate The Power of The Cross individually to experience healing and transformation in a way that traditional churches never teach.”

“I used to think my husband and I had a communications problem, and jokes from the pulpit about the differences between men and women made me think I was right. These tapes showed me that neither my husband and I nor any couple we fellowshipped with had any idea of what we really  needed to  talk about anyway, much less how to do it in a way that would produce healing instead of more frustration and pain. Now we know what to talk about before bed when we consider our own trials in life and the potential issues we see beginning to surface in our children.”